Verbal behaviour towards women
recently I became a 'member' of the Pick-Up community, and read some mainstream 'literature' on the relationship between men and women, as well as non-fiction dealing with the psychology of communication.
I do this because I feel akward around other people (not just women, the whole humanity) and are generally shy and tend not to speak a lot.
I never had a girlfriend so far.
I'd like to personally grow, and become a more outgoing person. One problem is that i simply don't know how to behave or what to say to a woman I might find attractive. Im thinking about something that isn't sexist, or makes me look like a needy nice guy, or just a friend.
What would be some good male role models? What be a 'good' behaviour that could accomplish this? What can I do?